Kangming Li Obituary (1960

Obituary for Kangming Li 吾妻，李康明，中国人，生于公元1960年7月31日，卒于2016年9月21日。岁月匆匆，白驹过隙，在美国盐湖城，溘然长逝。她走的急，走得快，走得远。念天地之悠悠，独怆然而涕下。她是一个好女人，父母前是孝女，丈夫前是贤妻，孩子前是良母。她的一生平凡，却令人难以忘怀。她爱他人，胜于爱自己，美丽，善良，勤俭，踏实，纯朴，高尚。她是我一生的挚爱，是儿子心中的永恒。山重重，水重重，我欲哭无泪，欲喊无声。妻是我一生最亲的人，是我一生最爱的人。愿你在天堂走好，来生我们再重逢！ My wife, Li Kangming, of China, passed away on September 21, 2016. She was born on July 31, 1960. She suddenly and unexpectedly passed from a heart attack while on vacation in Salt Lake City. She passed away to quickly and to far away. With so many mountains and oceans that separate us and all the people in the world, my tears fall alone. She is a good woman, and treated her parents very good. Taking care of their every need. She was a tremendous wife and mother. Although to others she was an ordinary women and now she is gone I can never forget her and miss every moment. Kangming was so unselfish, loving and caring of others before herself, she is beautiful, kind, thrifty, practical, simple, noble. She is the love of my life, and the eternal protector of her sons heart. My heart is heavy now being separated by many mountains and oceans from my love. She is my closest and dearest friend and most loved wife. I wish you a good day in heaven and I will be reunited with you as your husband in the next life, till we meet again! 亲爱的嫂子， 没想到你走的这么急，这么快，真的是让我感到百感交集，欲罢不能. 想当初我大哥能将你这位大家闺秀娶进门，真是我们王家的荣幸。 多年来，你同我大哥风风雨雨，高山低谷的这一路走来。你的踏实，认真，自强不息，善于与人打交道，都历历在目，仿佛就在昨天。 你是何等贤惠的母亲，为了儿子呕心沥血，谢谢你为王家培养了这么一位好儿子。 儿子如今也已长大了，知道孝顺了，一心想着将父亲接到美国来好尽一片孝心。 非常感谢你和大哥多年来对母亲的照顾，有你和大哥在的地方，让人感觉特别踏实和厚重，不会让人有后顾之忧.你们为此牺牲了很多，原本可以自由自在的游山玩水，却为了我们背负起了这一沉重的负担。 非常感谢你们对我这一对双胞胎儿子的照顾，在他们最需要照顾的那几年， 是你给他们的饮食、生活打下了良好的习惯。这一个好的饮食习惯将贯穿他们的一生，或许将代代相传下去， 这就是中国人的饮食文化， 他们到如今还是喜欢吃米饭炒菜加菜汁。他们的心中也总是记着大舅妈。我看到他们在学校的作业里，成长的记录的一部分就是在洛阳您家的日子。嫂子高雅，美丽，秀气，女人味十足的嫂子。愿您一路走好。在此献上我们深深的祝愿，好人一生平安。 Dear sister-in-law, I did not think you would leave us so fast and unexpected. I am unable to stop have emotions. I am so proud and honored that we have you as family. Over the years, besides the ups and downs between the mountains and the valleys your relationship always persisted. Your practical, serious, self-improvement, good at dealing with people, are vivid memories as if only yesterday. You are what a virtuous mother, for his son worked hard, thank you for the royal family to cultivate such a good son. You son has now grown up just like his father and his now following in your footsteps taking care of his father. I thank both of you for taking care of your mother for so many years. You were very dependable and consistent in caring for your mother even though you could have been on vacation or traveling, everyone knows how dedicated you two were to caring for you mother. Thank you very much for your care of my twin sons during their most critical time of their life, you gave them many good eating habits that they will pass down from generation to generation and life lessons. They love the Chinese food culture and still like the rice and the traditional food. Their hearts will always remember their favorite aunt. Even in school now, they still write and submit pictures from Luoyang in their school work. You will always be remembered as my elegant, beautiful, delicate, and feminine sister-in-law. We offer our deepest sympathies and best wishes in Heaven. 嫂子：你怎么能这样，就这样不声不响一个人躲起来了，丢你年迈已老的母亲，婆婆，相濡以沫的丈夫，乖巧懂事的儿子，还有我们这一帮兄弟姐妹们，你怎么忍心啊嫂子。 就这样你去了远远的天国，在远离亲人的异国他乡，你走的这么急还不及一声道别，我们理解你，真心想家了，想回到生你养你的土地上来，嫂子，借着光亮，向着东方，一路向东，哥已经为你筑好了爱巢。嫂子 我们想你，一路走好。